In 2017, a man named Jitendra Kumar got married, had a kid, then disappeared completely. This, naturally, made everyone around him distraught. Was he safe? Was he even alive? Where could he have gone?

Unfortunately for his wife and kid, the answers to those questions are, in order, “Yes,” “Yes,” and “Off to chill with his new wife.”

Turns out, Kumar apparently decided to ditch his family and begin a whole new life in another town — with his previous wife only finding out about it after she saw him post an Instagram Reel with his new family.

Now, police are looking into the matter and are hoping to charge the man with bigamy, as he never technically divorced his previous wife. Fellas, if you’re thinking about starting a secret, second family, don’t — or, at least, get off social media.