According to a new book, Gwyneth Paltrow once said that, when she and Affleck were dating, she used to love how he “teabagged” her.

For those of you who have never played Halo, teabagging is where you take your dangly pouch and dip it repeatedly into someone’s mouth. I had always thought of this as more of a “frat hazing ritual” than something to be done in the bedroom, but if it’s good enough for Paltrow, it’s good enough for me!

This claim comes from Paltrow’s makeup artist Kevyn Aucoin, because talking about how you love having your partner’s grapes dipped in your mouth is apparently something ladies talk about with their makeup artists. The book also reveals that Paltrow wasn’t super happy in the relationship, with author Amy Odell writing, “(Affleck) at times seemed more interested in playing video games with the guys at his house than being with Gwyneth.”

Relatable!