If you were a big Neal McDonough fan, well, you have pretty niche tastes — but you were also probably wondering where he went. From a role in ABC’s Scoundrels to complete radio silence: What happened?

Well, now we know. According to TMZ, he was let go from Scoundrels because he was asked to do a scene where he would share a smooch with someone who wasn’t his wife. As a result, he says Hollywood kicked him to the curb. Wife Guys face so much discrimination!

Because of this firing, he says he lost work, houses and his “swagger.” However, he says it actually ended up being fortuitous for him, as it allowed him to focus on getting sober and putting his life together before re-entering the world of acting, and now, he can be seen on the popular show Yellowstone.

As for whether he would be down to kiss another woman on screen now, after his life is in order, he says the answer is still no — and that his children wouldn’t be comfortable seeing him kissing another woman on-screen.

That’s right, kids — you should know that your father only porks your mother, and that’s final!